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The Avoidant’s Regret
The Avoidant’s Regret
The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea

Tom Robinson
Sep 151 min read


How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost).
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost

Tom Robinson
Sep 93 min read


The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant Ex
The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant: Why Loving Them Feels Like Madness
If you’ve ever fallen for a dismissive avoidant, you’ll under

Tom Robinson
Aug 252 min read


Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex
Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

Tom Robinson
Jul 302 min read


How to Respond When a Dismissive Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message…
How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message
I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

Tom Robinson
Jul 292 min read


Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away.
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Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away
If you’ve ever been close to someone with a dismis

Tom Robinson
Jul 223 min read


How to Let Go of an Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Ex
Letting Go: The Quiet Power of Moving On
One day, you stop writing about it.
You stop replaying the conversations in your head, stop wonder

Tom Robinson
Jul 192 min read


How to Recognise a Dismissive Avoidant Partner - And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard you
How to Recognize a Dismissive-Avoidant — And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard You
If you’ve ever felt confused, neglected, or suddenly

Tom Robinson
Jul 13 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: unhealed Blocking and Ghosting
When someone avoidant ghosts you or blocks you, it says everything about them — and nothing about you.
Let’s be honest: disappearing, going

Tom Robinson
Jun 291 min read


Why They Discard the Right One And End Up Resentful
At first, the avoidant feels in control.
They pull away from intensity, convincing themselves that emotional chaos equals danger. So when t

Tom Robinson
Jun 162 min read


Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
Choosing Yourself: Healing Anxious Attachment & Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
There’s something deeply painful about lovin

Tom Robinson
May 212 min read


From Anxious to Free: My Healing Journey ❤️🩹
Dismissive avoidant 👋

Tom Robinson
May 132 min read


Why Anxious Attachers Often Suffer in Silence (And How Healing Truly Begins
Dismissive avoidant ex partners need therapy

Tom Robinson
May 112 min read


The Quiet Power of Letting Go
Letting go isn't a single moment. It's not one final conversation or one dramatic goodbye. It's a process—slow, subtle, and often...

Tom Robinson
May 52 min read


Dismissive Avoidant Ex? How to break free - for GOOD!
There comes a moment when you just say sod it —not out of anger, but from a place of clarity. When you’ve been involved with a dismissive...

Tom Robinson
Apr 92 min read


Men’s Health Week 2021: day 2 – (Be) Active #activetuesday
For the second day of Men’s Health Week and the ‘CAN DO’ challenge, we are being encouraged to be more active through exercise which can...

Tom Robinson
Jun 15, 20214 min read


A change of scene, social engagement, and some wonderful words of wisdom!
Last weekend I went up to Shropshire to support my sister in her half Iron Man and there were lots of positive mental health aspects to...

Tom Robinson
Jun 8, 20214 min read


The Social Dilemma: why I’ve decided not to have any more social media!
Anyone who is trying to launch any kind of business or enterprise in today’s world knows how important social media can be to attracting...

Tom Robinson
May 24, 20216 min read


How helping butterflies can have a positive effect on mental well-being
I am having to revert to writing about mental health/well-being today because discussing some of the contentious issues that surround...

Tom Robinson
Apr 16, 20213 min read


Blind student’s emotional reunion with guide dog after seven months lonely and isolated
I thought I would write a less involved post today to balance out the rather difficult topics I generally discuss on here. Committing to...

Tom Robinson
Apr 9, 20214 min read
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